I practice massage (oil, Thai and Shiatsu) for twenty years, I also taught for ten years.I also addressed tantric massage and what you taught me is that a massage, even if routes throughout the body (including sexual areas) remains a massage and penetrations in are excluded.
On this point, we do not agree and it is therefore necessary to differentiate tantric massage and Tantra (where there are actually sex) who, for one, remains in private.I also learned that the Tantric massage, if the bet does not exclude any body, is not a massage followed by masturbation, no attempt is made specially enjoyment (or to prevent either ).But the person who will help ground the other, as and when the sessions, to travel in its bearings sensations ... for perhaps after a long practice, get to hold his orgasm ... and then hold his ejaculation.So the way I do. It was not at the same school!For cons, I accompanied a very small number of people in tantric massage, because it is a way of life. Therefore, I reject that people who want to work on her own and want to learn to receive and enjoy the sensations in the moment.
It can also bring out the emotions, that's why I talk to support and path.Receive, simply, it is not obvious to a traditional massage, but when you touch the sex, it's much more difficult because it is often in his head instead of being in his body (and there are fantasies we would like to get closer, instead of accepting what comes without thinking).Unfortunately, in Europe, some people have realized the financial incentive to use the word Tantrism for a sexual purpose, while offering massages. Prostitution is the oldest profession in the world and although it is prohibited by the laws, it certainly helps many people who have no other opportunities to have sex (and I would say human).
I also think that Tantra is not reduced to a sum of control techniques and lifestyle, the art of self-presence and the other for a harmonious relationship is important.Tantric massage is a philosophy, and for me to receive, without waiting for other things, a massage that releases energy.I can offer you this free massageto your homesee you soon may be